If we’re desperate to be in a relationship, we become less aware of other people’s flaws…and we sometimes settle for relationships that aren’t good for us.
Seeing multiple women at the same time is my default setting because I can maintain close relationships while still leaving myself open to finding “the one”.
I don’t really like sleeping with women when I don’t feel anything for them.
It happens, and it can be fun, but it also feels kind of empty because it doesn’t fulfill my need for emotional connection.
Or they just already assumed you were seeing other women, and it’s a total non-issue for them.
Confusion, on the other hand, arises when they had different ideas for the relationship.
So, I’ve learned to safely navigate the minefield of maintaining multiple relationships, the honest way.I tend to get really close with the women I with them.I have fallen in love with two gorgeous women in my life, and both of those serious relationships began while I was seeing several other women.He’s well traveled and threw himself into different cultures by moving from Australia to Poland and now Columbia where he has to develop new social circles.Most of all, he’s always open to adventures with people.After having had the above conversation dozens of times, not one of my “what ifs” have ever materialized.